FWB.
by thedirtythirty
Talking to my ex recently has sparked up a friendship again. For a long time after we broke up, he wasn’t able to talk to me (even though he cheated on me) because he said he still had really strong feelings for me. When we met up about a month ago, he was just starting to come to terms with us just being friends and being okay with it.
Now, it has slowly morphed into a friends with benefits situation. We text constantly about wanting to hook up with each other but knowing that there is nothing more than just that. I like the fact that when I’m back home, I have easy access to sex whenever and how frequently as I want. I’m not too sure what his motives are for moving into the friends with benefits category since he is seeing someone but I don’t care to ask nor do I want to know.
We both acknowledge that it is what it is. We are friends but we like to have sex with each other. Nothing more on either side. In a way, it feels like maturation since normally I would be jealous that he is seeing someone but I think I’ve moved past him being the “one” in my life so I can easily separate sex and love. Whatever the case may be, I can’t wait to go home for Thanksgiving and get me some turkey sausage.
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It’s not so easy to separate love from sex
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I understand that for most people and even for me sometimes that is the case, but for this circumstance, I’m pretty sure I will be able to separate the two. Thanks for reading and for commenting though!
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Very interested to find out how the situation evolves. Whenever I tell myself I can separate sex and feelings, I usually end up proving myself wrong. But that’s just me!
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Yeah, that is the case for me most of the time but I think that in this case and due to the fact that I’ve mentally put this relationship in the past, that I will be okay as far as feelings. He might have a problem with it but I will keep you updated with more blogs, if anything changes 🙂
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so basically he cheated on you and now he is cheating with you. Like you said, he is your ex for a reason. I would drop this dude like a bad habit
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Its just good to have around for when I go home for the holidays and don’t have to go looking for sex. Plus, I like our sex.
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As someone who is in a fwb situation, I regularly yearn for more.
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That’s ok, it just sucks when it’s not reciprocated.
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For sure, would be saddened if he ended things
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He won’t! He seems to like it because he keeps coming back.
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true 🙂
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